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The Crooked Little Road to Semi-Ever After

Heather Harpham

An Amazon Best Memoir of the Month

One of Elle Magazine’s Best Books of 2017

Goodreads Best of the Month

Daily Beast, “Books I Can’t Live Without”

Good Housekeeping, Best New Books for Summer

Book Riot, 100 Must Read Books about Happiness


Happiness starts out as a charming courtship between hopelessly attracted opposites: Heather, an out-going, theatre-performing California girl, and Brian, an intellectual New Yorker with an unwavering writing routine. But when Heather falls pregnant, their magical interlude abruptly ends—Brian loves her, only he doesn’t want kids. So Heather decides to have their baby alone.

Mere hours after Gracie’s arrival, Heather’s bliss is interrupted when a nurse wakes her, ‘Get dressed, your baby is in trouble.’ This is not how Heather had imagined motherhood. As concerns for her health grow, Brian and Heather begin a cautious return to each other. Happiness: The Crooked Little Road to Semi-Ever After transforms heartbreak and parental fears into a lyrical meditation on love and happiness, in all their crooked configurations.

  • Publication date: September 7, 2017
  • ISBN: 9781786071378
  • RRP: £14.99
  • Pages: 336


'Harpham...brings us along on her raw, real journey of healing—not just of her child but also of her marriage.' 5 Memoirs That Will Blow Your Mind

'Harpham has a keen eye and a quirky turn of phrase.'

Sunday Herald

'Heather Harpham has managed to weave a deftly-told memoir on both a cruel twist of genetic fate, and the complexities of romantic love, with wit and grace.'

Huffington Post

'An amazing story of love (almost) lost, then found.'

People Magazine

'A heartfelt exploration of mortality and life, this memoir also explores the complex pulls and pushes of human relationships, and the deep debt we owe to family, friends, and modern medicine. At heart, it is a sobering mediation on the lasting impermanence of its titular emotion, happiness.'


'Utterly gorgeous...heartbreaking...staggering... If you’re looking for a book to love, I recommend it...[Happiness] is told in riveting, plot-twisting fashion... But I’ll say that it’s also told with care and courage and humor, and it will deepen your understanding of not just life with a sick child, but life.'

Chicago Tribune

'Absorbing... A beautifully-written, insightful tale.'

Good Housekeeping

'Heather Harpham's moving memoir, [Happiness] is a page-turner.'


'Happiness touches on every woman's worst nightmares. An unplanned pregnancy. A reluctant partner. A baby with a life-threatening condition and an agonising moral dilemma. Could a second child save its older sibling? A beautifully written story of how a family is made and lives and loves together through the worst and best of times.'

Dame Jenni Murray, presenter of BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour

'An at times achingly painful, ultimately feel-good book for those who cringe at mawkish sentimentality.'


'Harpham immediately grabs for the heart, juxtaposing the roller-coaster reality of caring for a critically ill newborn alongside her exhilarating, romantic courtship with Brian.'

Shelf Awareness

'Although a personal story, Harpham’s memoir provides a larger, universal picture of unconditional love toward a child and the push-pull of an adult relationship and all its inherent highs and lows.'


Heather Harpham

Heather Harpham is a writer, teacher, and physical theater performer. Her writing for the stage includes six solo plays, the most recent of which, Happiness and BURNING, have toured nationally. Harpham’s work has been recognized with the Brenda Ueland Prose Prize, a Marin Arts Council Independent Artist Grant, and a grant from the Barbara Deming Memorial Fund. She lives twelve miles north of New York City with her family. Harpham teaches in the theater departments at Sarah Lawrence College and SUNY.

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